You're a working wife who is carrying the load of your paid job and all or most of your family's child care and housework; you often feel exhausted, stressed, and overwhelmed; you have discovered that having it all seems to mean doing it all. What can you do to find relief? Wait a Minute, You Can Have It All has the answers you need and shows you how to solve your Overload in ways that will strengthen your marriage. Without realizing it, most working wives and their. Husbands live their two-paycheck marriage by one-paycheck family rules, and thereby force themselves into a hidden and unnecessary struggle for housepower. This struggle actually prevents husbands from doing more at home and prevents wives from getting the relief they need. Shirley Sloan Fader reveals how a wife's work in fact makes a husband's life easier and shows why the working wife is entitled to relief from an Overload of child care and housework. Fader offers a. New system based on how two-paycheck families really live, and provides clear, step-by-step specifics of what a woman can say and do to help her husband see the great benefits of his contributing his fair share at home. Fader's guidance gives working wives the answers they need to balance the demands of marriage, children, household responsibilities, and their job. Whether a wife works because she has to or because she wants to, this book offers her and her husband. Practical, effective, win-win solutions that allow them both to "have it all" and enjoy it!